please respect my privacy and boundaries. I do not wish to have you around, nagging me the little things that doesn’t make any difference in life. Don’t try to make me your toy just because I’m a man. Trust me, you wouldn’t like it if I looked through your phone, your computer, or push you around every moment we’re together. I don’t give a damn about what you do on your own, that’s on you. Whatever you do, just don’t nag me. I will blow up and give you hell that’ll make you wish you’ve never met me.
don’t give me any bullshit about porn. I’m a guy, it’s what some guys do to pass time. It’s just the same as you girls watching chick flicks, dramas, or whatever majority of females do. You do what you do, I do what I do; let’s just leave it that way.
don’t compare me to your ex boyfriend(s). I may do some things similar to them or have similar traits but I’m not him. If you compare me to someone from your past, you might as well get back with him cause you’re clearly still stuck on him and not focusing on being with me.
don’t compare me to your ex boyfriend(s). I may do some things similar to them or have similar traits but I’m not him. If you compare me to someone from your past, you might as well get back with him cause you’re clearly still stuck on him and not focusing on being with me.
I want you to be comfortable around me no matter what it is. Once I’m with you, I won’t care about your appearance, your choice of words, your actions, or even your decisions. You live how you want, I’m not controlling you unless you get out of line and start disrespecting me and everyone else around you like you have all the power in the world to do so.
You can wear no makeup, once I know who you are personally, looks don’t matter. I know who I fell in love with, not what product I love to see you in.
You can speak freely about what you want or feel, whether it’s in public or in private about something personal. If you want to talk about sex, go for it; warn me about you being on your period, go for it; say you need to shit or pee, go for it. It’s all about being open with me.
What you want to do with your life, it’s your choice. I’ll only interfere if you’re going to ruin your life or take a risk towards ruining it with drugs, pills, or whatever. You want to risk your life for temporary happiness over struggling to get through and solve it completely with me? Do it. Just know that what we have in the relationship at that point won’t be there anymore.
I will be honest to you regardless, even before we start a relationship. I don’t enjoy lying or sugarcoating things to make everything seem fine and perfect. I will build everything off my honesty so you can trust me. If there’s no trust, then there’s no respect, no love, no relationship, nothing worthy.
If you cry, I’ll wipe away your tears, give you my shoulder to lean and cry on, and hold you close until you’re ready to leave with a smile. I’m not going to let go of you until you’re good, ready to show your face again and not hide from public just because you cried.
If you’re angry and upset, I’ll take the blame for it all even if the problem is not related to me. Take your anger out on me. I don’t want you to hurt yourself, anyone else, or anything that is around you because of your anger. If you want to punch someone, let it be me.
If you have no where left to go and no one to talk to, I’m here regardless. You can run to me and talk about everything that’s troubling your mind. If you get kicked out your house or need to step away from your family/friends, come to me. I don’t care if I’m busy or not, I’ll do what I can to finish my task and keep you comforted through your problems. Even if you have a problem with me or what I did, let me know. I’ll try my best to work it out and fix it. I won’t leave you on the sideline just because you pointed out something about me.
